Monday, August 26, 2013

the human deal

your heart and mind are mindless fools
fall prey to foolish fears
whne your mind is convinced your should laugh
your heart starts with curious tears

how can you convince yourself
if you cant convince your mind
what love can you expect from your
heart of an eccentric kind

every day they are at war
caught in the middle poor man
we try to listen to both of them
as much as possibly can

but in the end we neither do
nor say what we truly feel
because your mind and heart are heartless fools
it's all a part of the human deal

ed lithium

Sunday, August 25, 2013

Unforgettable


Time has changed. Once you would cast your vote, now you vote for caste.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

The concept of Donation

     At the heart of Hinduism,  beats the concept of charity. How we connect to God is through donation and how we donate forms the crux of being religious. The society works well only if people do their duties, and this is completely different from donations. So, where do we draw the thin line? Is charity not our duty? This is something my family priest explained once very well and I hope to share this concept of donation with you all.

     He said, "When you have leftover food, time, money or clothing, it is your duty to give it to others who need it. Donation occurs when you have a valid need for these objects but still give it to others who need it. "

     In fact Hindu scriptures advise going out of the house and shouting three times, " Is any one hungry ? Please come and take your meal! " before one sits down to have a meal. And every time we sit down to eat we offer others first, not caring for our hunger. This thing is so ingrained in Hinduism that we do it involuntarily.
   
     In a true incident that strengthened this belief of mine, on a long and arduous trek me and friend got lost. And we came across an old man carrying a disturbingly heavy bundle of wood to the village. He gladly told us where to go. And he added, after helping us, "please come and eat with me. I will feel bad if I do not share it." So we went over and we saw a tiffin box which contained one small bhakri and an onion. The feeling of sorrow and shame overcame us, as we were carrying so much food with us. We told him we would rather leave it all for him. He became visibly upset that we refused. He became upset that we said no to sharing the little portion of meal he had for himself.
    Imagine yourself in this position where an old guy who can afford just one bhakri for lunch after having carried a load of wood heavier than himself, is sitting down and offering to share his food and gets upset when we refuse to eat. In the end we had a morsel and gave him the food we had and left.

     And we left changed, humbled Indians.

     These days we all crib, "I am so busy, I have no time!" But just imagine now staying up one hour late to do your homework and spend one hour each week teaching a poor kid English or Mathematics. It does not take a lot of time understanding that adding a little stress to your own life, at the cost of your own time, is nothing compared to how much the little kid will be benefited. This is because many times your time makes a bigger difference for someone else than it could ever do for you. 
      When a father gives his son twenty rupees to buy a toy worth fifteen rupees, and the son donates the remaining five rupees to someone, this does not count as donation. The child had been eyeing that toy for weeks and weeks and finally got money to buy that toy after convincing his dad. When that child sees a beggar on the street who hasnt had a meal in days, and decides to give his twenty rupees so that the beggar can have a meal, instead of buying his toy, that would be a good example of donation.

     Donation is never easy, charity rarely is an comfortable act. And that is why it is rightly said, “We only have what we give.” ― Isabel Allende
   
   
   
     

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Corrupt Country

     It was a dedicated effort, and well directed. It was a sincere effort, and well orchestrated. It was aptly advertised and cleverly caused. People were called out into the streets, from different houses and localities. People of every religion and caste made their presence known. Man, woman, child---- all were there, agitated and ready to walk. But, something was missing. A sincere question to Mr. Hazare on his recent bout with the Government against corruption in the country- Really?

     India is a corrupt country not because of politicians. India is a corrupt country because India is a country of corrupt people. An agitation was not required. People are well aware of corruption. People are well educated about corruption. Every man in his life has encountered corruption and dealt with it. People are really very well aware that corruption haunts the streets of India, starting from getting admission into pre-school to getting a death certificate to prove a man is actually dead. Individuals and groups, people and the government have both been actively involved in this process. Corruption is all around us, because corrupt people are all around us.  People were all across television expressing anger against the government.So, lets assume for now the fight is against the government. But then again, we elected the government. Every one of us did. And we hold them responsible. You tell me you don t vote because it doesn't matter and I will tell you it matters much more.
   
     And this helps me modify my question for Mr. Hazare a little.
 
    What is your fight against, really? Is it corruption? Is it corrupt government? Is it corrupt people? Because, corruption cannot exist without corrupt government, which in turn is meaningless without corrupt people. and if you are indeed fighting against corrupt people, here I am. Come. We all have gone through corruption and been very active in corruption since our birth. Why in fact, for most of us our birth certificate was got by paying a bribe to a peon. We then go to school, where every day our mother and father bribe us with sweets and toys to get a good grade. In college, the police bribe us every time we drive without a helmet. For many of us, getting into the college of our dreams is impossible without corruption. Getting a job, getting promoted, getting a raise, everything now has incorporated corruption very easily.

     And we accept it. Which we shouldn't.

     And so, before we can even think of saying something as ridiculous as "We don't want corruption in the government" we should first have the guts to not pay a bribe when we break the signal.
 
     The question that needs a answer is which of the following is more dangerous- the government with a thousand crore rupee scam and a population all angry at it, or simple individuals who bribe a policeman for having broken the signal? This question might seem innocent but it has its roots for deep in the actual problem this country is facing.

   I hear a lot of people saying that when the Government gets caught in a million rupee scam the National pride is hurt and we as a nation are humiliated on a global scale. I contradict this, because I think that every time a foreign tourist sees a citizen who pays a bribe to get out of trouble, we as a nation are shamed much more.

     And lets assume for a minute that Mr. Hazare gets rid of corruption in the country. What next? Would we have an utopia? Would we have a country where everyone is happy? Would every one follow the rules now?

     Hardly.

     I can guarantee you that one day, when no one is taking bribes, there will be a person who wonders whether he can get a better deal. This will start a whole cycle of corruption and a struggle against it. More people will see that to get a better deal all you need to do is be corrupt. And why would you not do it? The system is bad, you can always convince yourself. Everyone is doing is, you can always console yourself to sleep. And so you join and drag with you, a multitude.
   
     A better approach in this case would be to not target corruption but the causes of corruption. We can spend time and think why we need to pay the bribe to a policewaala everytime we break a signal. Make the system of paying fines better. Give the policemen better wages so they do not have to take bribes. Keep on reviewing these changes after certain fixed times and make changes as needed. Make the citizens realize the seriousness of breaking a signal. Make the policemen realize the seriousness of not taking a bribe and fining the culprits to the full.

      Corruption will never go, but it will always teach us a lot about ourselves and our country. It acts as an extraordinary pointer to underlying causes of distress to people. It tells us where and how our system is failing. More importantly, it tells us where we can better ourselves and the system. We should learn as much as we can from this symptom of failure, because corruption is not a cause but a symptom.

     And so I always maintain this point of view- corruption can never leave us alone. We should not strive to be a country which is corruption free, but a country which is always striving to be corruption free.

Ed Lithium


Saturday, August 17, 2013

home


so far away from people
but never alone
i return each day to my own house
but never my home


ed lithium

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Bhakti

No words could help express
A poet's love for his wife
A man as mortal as me
Counts your smiles as my life


A life spent in your arms
I shall earn my goodwill in your smiles
But what is the need
Why should I heed
Warnings saying I need to do good to get into heaven
When I am in a heaven with you


Such is the love of a beautiful wife
A poet finds no words to spend
All a poet really wants 
Is a beautiful best friend

Ed lithium